Anonymous asked: what's the worst decision you ever made?

this is a compelling question, so i thought i’d answer it.  but it’s not something i really feel comfortable putting on a blog in detail for the world to read.

in the vaguest of terms, the worst decision i’ve made was not saying something when i should have said something.  when i had the chance.

but you know what?  it was a long time ago.  and if that “worst decision” brought me to where i am today, then that’s not such a bad thing.  i have so many things to be thankful for and so many things to be happy about.  so, i feel pretty damn lucky that i didn’t have multiple “worst decisions” to pick from.