Anonymous asked: What are your top deal-breakers?

This one has been in the queue for a long time because I was trying to figure out the exact right way to answer it.  There’s probably a lot of nitpicky type things that don’t really count as dealbreakers.  The bottom line is this:

Are you passionate about something in your life? If the answer is no, that’s the dealbreaker.  That’s really the only one.

It doesn’t matter what your passion is.  It could be your job.  It could be knitting.  It could be dance parties.  It could be Civil War history. (if it’s Civil War history - hollaaa)  Just have a passion and love something.

How could I ever expect you to like/understand all the quirky weird shit I’m into if you’re not passionate about anything yourself?

That’s it.  That’s the top dealbreaker.